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Feminist, Kinky, Queer, Sex+, Body+, Toy enthusiast, Blogger.
Feminist, Kinky, Queer, Sex+, Body+, Toy enthusiast, Blogger.
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 2021 – New Flings and Old Flames

2021 – New Flings and Old Flames

November 20, 2021

Last year was the first time I wrote any sort of year-end-recap and I did it mostly because of how Covid had changed so much, not only on my blog (was a bit of a slow year) but also life in [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Setting Limits

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Setting Limits

September 14, 2021

Hi there! Sorry it’s been a while since our last chat, I was taking a little break. Previously we covered some safety aspects that are attached to acting out your kinks, and dug a little [...]

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 Unpopular Opinion – Fake All The Orgasms You Have To

Unpopular Opinion – Fake All The Orgasms You Have To

June 19, 2021

... A lot of the time, it's not safe for women to speak up and tell the person they are having sex with "your dick is trash."...

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safety and Consent

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safety and Consent

January 23, 2021

Alright, so we’ve discovered that we might not be very vanilla afterall, and we’ve touched on (but certainly not exhausted) the vast array of roles and labels we might find ourselves [...]

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 2020 New Flings and Old Flames

2020 New Flings and Old Flames

December 14, 2020

Alternately titled – What felt good this year when literally nothing felt good  I’ve never done a “year end wrap up” style post before but this seemed like as good a [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO

December 2, 2020

Frenzy and FOMO – two terms we use a lot in “The Scene”, especially around newbies. What do they mean? Why do we feel them? What do we do about it? That’s what this post [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology

November 15, 2020

Now that we’ve gotten over some of the initial freak-out of discovering this vast brand new world, let’s slap on some name tags and get down to business.  One of the biggest questions [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword

November 1, 2020

First of all, welcome home! A little bit of a foreword :  I’ve identified as kinky since basically forever now. I’m certainly not the one-true-voice-of-kink but I do hope to [...]

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 Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers

Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers

July 20, 2017

Dearly beloved peddlers of my favourite sexual wares – this one’s for you   The World Wide Web is staring down its 30’s, Google is finally old enough to buy cigarettes, and [...]

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 Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting?

Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting?

April 21, 2017

Squirting – it’s trending right now. It has been for a few years with everyone from Cosmopolitan to Buzzed News, The Frisky to Refinery29, Thoughtcatalog, Women’s Health [...]

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 A Safer, Sex-Positive Community? What Does That Look Like? – Reflections from Playground Conference 2015

A Safer, Sex-Positive Community? What Does That Look Like? – Reflections from Playground Conference 2015

January 22, 2016

I wrote previously about my experience with one of the presentations offered at Toronto’s 2015 Playground Conference, and even though it was many many weeks ago now, I’m still working [...]

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