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Help! I’m Kinky?

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword

November 1, 2020

First of all, welcome home! A little bit of a foreword :  I’ve identified as kinky since basically forever now. I’m certainly not the one-true-voice-of-kink but I do hope to [...]

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     Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology

    Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology

    November 15, 2020

    Now that we’ve gotten over some of the initial freak-out of discovering this vast brand new world, let’s slap on some name tags and get down to business.  One of the biggest [...]

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       Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO

      Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO

      December 2, 2020

      Frenzy and FOMO – two terms we use a lot in “The Scene”, especially around newbies. What do they mean? Why do we feel them? What do we do about it? That’s what this post [...]

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         Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safety and Consent

        Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safety and Consent

        January 23, 2021

        Alright, so we’ve discovered that we might not be very vanilla afterall, and we’ve touched on (but certainly not exhausted) the vast array of roles and labels we might find ourselves [...]

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           Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Setting Limits

          Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Setting Limits

          September 14, 2021

          Hi there! Sorry it’s been a while since our last chat, I was taking a little break. Previously we covered some safety aspects that are attached to acting out your kinks, and dug a little [...]

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             Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Elements Of The Scene

            Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Elements Of The Scene

            July 28, 2023

            Welcome back for another instalment of how on earth to find your way through discovering your kinks! To recap, we’ve talked about the basics of entering the kinky lifestyle, where you might [...]

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               Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safewords

              Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safewords

              September 15, 2023

              We’ve made it – our final chapter for Learning The Ropes – figuring out our safewords! Previously we laid out a roadmap for negotiating a great scene. Safewords are a part of [...]

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