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Feminist, Kinky, Queer, Sex+, Body+, Toy enthusiast, Blogger.
Feminist, Kinky, Queer, Sex+, Body+, Toy enthusiast, Blogger.
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  • About
    • About Me
    • FAQ
    • Disclaimers & Policies
  • Reviews
  • Blog Posts
    • General Musings
    • Get Personal
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  • Contact
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 2020 New Flings and Old Flames
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By SexBloggess
In Blog Posts, Featured, General Musings
Posted December 14, 2020

2020 New Flings and Old Flames

Alternately titled – What felt good this year when literally nothing felt good  I’ve never done a “year end wrap up” style post before but this seemed like as good a [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO
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By SexBloggess
In General Musings
Posted December 2, 2020

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Fetish Frenzy and FOMO

Frenzy and FOMO – two terms we use a lot in “The Scene”, especially around newbies. What do they mean? Why do we feel them? What do we do about it? That’s what this post [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology
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By SexBloggess
In General Musings
Posted November 15, 2020

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – Roles, Labels and Terminology

Now that we’ve gotten over some of the initial freak-out of discovering this vast brand new world, let’s slap on some name tags and get down to business.  One of the biggest questions [...]

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 Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword
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By SexBloggess
In Blog Posts, General Musings
Posted November 1, 2020

Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 1 : Now What? – A Foreword

First of all, welcome home! A little bit of a foreword :  I’ve identified as kinky since basically forever now. I’m certainly not the one-true-voice-of-kink but I do hope to [...]

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 How do I love a body that refuses to love me back?
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, Get Personal
Posted October 25, 2020

How do I love a body that refuses to love me back?

How do you love a body that refuses to love you back. That’s a question I’ve had for what feels like forever. To be clear – if you’re looking for an answer in this post, I don’t think [...]

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 For The Love Of Fucking Packers
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, Get Personal
Posted August 21, 2018

For The Love Of Fucking Packers

No I mean like…fucking packers. I’ve long been on the search for the perfect dildos. In my case, perfect means soft, squishy, pliable. Boring in shape and accommodating in size, [...]

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 Do You Promise? – A tale of emotional abuse and personal growth
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By SexBloggess
In Get Personal
Posted January 15, 2018

Do You Promise? – A tale of emotional abuse and personal growth

Content Warning : Emotional and psychological abuse in relationships, mental health and self-esteem, suicide, sexual assault, date rape.   I had my first real boyfriend at 13 years old. [...]

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 Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, General Musings
Posted July 20, 2017

Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers

Dearly beloved peddlers of my favourite sexual wares – this one’s for you   The World Wide Web is staring down its 30’s, Google is finally old enough to buy cigarettes, and [...]

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 Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting?
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, General Musings
Posted April 21, 2017

Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting?

Squirting – it’s trending right now. It has been for a few years with everyone from Cosmopolitan to Buzzed News, The Frisky to Refinery29, Thoughtcatalog, Women’s Health [...]

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 Getting To Know My G-spot
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, Get Personal
Posted March 1, 2017

Getting To Know My G-spot

Despite possessing it for twenty-some odd years and being aware of its existence for at least a decade, I still haven’t fully grasped all the nuances of my finicky G-spot. In fact I [...]

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 Understanding My Weird Vulva
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By SexBloggess
In Get Personal
Posted January 21, 2017

Understanding My Weird Vulva

Disclaimers: This post has the potential to go in a million different directions, so consider this your warning that I may ramble off into tangents I recognize and believe that not everyone with [...]

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 A Safer, Sex-Positive Community? What Does That Look Like? – Reflections from Playground Conference 2015
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By SexBloggess
In Featured, General Musings
Posted January 22, 2016

A Safer, Sex-Positive Community? What Does That Look Like? – Reflections from Playground Conference 2015

I wrote previously about my experience with one of the presentations offered at Toronto’s 2015 Playground Conference, and even though it was many many weeks ago now, I’m still working [...]

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 My Sexual Voice
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By SexBloggess
In Get Personal
Posted November 21, 2015

My Sexual Voice

Last weekend I had the opportunity to attend my first conference on sexuality since embarking on my blogging adventure. It was called Playground, hosted right at home in Toronto, a three-day [...]

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