2021 – New Flings and Old Flames
Last year was the first time I wrote any sort of year-end-recap and I did it mostly because of how Covid had changed so much, not only on my blog (was a bit of a slow year) but also life in [...]
Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Setting Limits
Hi there! Sorry it’s been a while since our last chat, I was taking a little break. Previously we covered some safety aspects that are attached to acting out your kinks, and dug a little [...]
Unpopular Opinion – Fake All The Orgasms You Have To
... A lot of the time, it's not safe for women to speak up and tell the person they are having sex with "your dick is trash."...
Help! I’m Kinky? A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safety and Consent
Alright, so we’ve discovered that we might not be very vanilla afterall, and we’ve touched on (but certainly not exhausted) the vast array of roles and labels we might find ourselves [...]
2020 New Flings and Old Flames
Alternately titled – What felt good this year when literally nothing felt good I’ve never done a “year end wrap up” style post before but this seemed like as good a [...]
How do I love a body that refuses to love me back?
How do you love a body that refuses to love you back. That’s a question I’ve had for what feels like forever. To be clear – if you’re looking for an answer in this post, I don’t think [...]
For The Love Of Fucking Packers
No I mean like…fucking packers. I’ve long been on the search for the perfect dildos. In my case, perfect means soft, squishy, pliable. Boring in shape and accommodating in size, [...]
Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers
Dearly beloved peddlers of my favourite sexual wares – this one’s for you The World Wide Web is staring down its 30’s, Google is finally old enough to buy cigarettes, and [...]
Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting?
Squirting – it’s trending right now. It has been for a few years with everyone from Cosmopolitan to Buzzed News, The Frisky to Refinery29, Thoughtcatalog, Women’s Health [...]
Getting To Know My G-spot
Despite possessing it for twenty-some odd years and being aware of its existence for at least a decade, I still haven’t fully grasped all the nuances of my finicky G-spot. In fact I [...]
Choosing The Right Type Of Lube
You’ll probably never see me write a complete review for a lubricant. Why not? I just don’t have a whole lot to say – it either works well for me or it doesn’t. On top of [...]
A Safer, Sex-Positive Community? What Does That Look Like? – Reflections from Playground Conference 2015
I wrote previously about my experience with one of the presentations offered at Toronto’s 2015 Playground Conference, and even though it was many many weeks ago now, I’m still working [...]