Understanding My Weird Vulva
I’d been with a number of women in my 14 years of sexual activity, but this was going to be different than any experience I’d had before, in a lot of ways.
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I’d been with a number of women in my 14 years of sexual activity, but this was going to be different than any experience I’d had before, in a lot of ways.
Understanding My Weird Vulva Read Post »
We’ve made it – our final chapter for Learning The Ropes – figuring out our safewords! Previously we laid out a roadmap for negotiating a great scene. Safewords are a part of scene negotiation, but they felt to me like they deserved their own post because there’s a lot more to cover than “say uncle!”
Welcome back for another instalment of how on earth to find your way through discovering your kinks! To recap, we’ve talked about the basics of entering the kinky lifestyle, where you might fall on the great big spectrum of not-vanilla, and how to play safer. Last time we went over how to find and set
Hi there! Sorry it’s been a while since our last chat, I was taking a little break. Previously we covered some safety aspects that are attached to acting out your kinks, and dug a little bit into what goes into giving and obtaining proper consent to performing these kinks with others. This time I want
Have you heard the great news? I’ve recently been able to add Naughty North to my affiliate repertoire! Naughty North is the Canadian counterpart to Betty’s Toy Box, and with their help I get to bring my readers up north the same great products and deals the US folks get, without paying twice over for
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Alright, so we’ve discovered that we might not be very vanilla afterall, and we’ve touched on (but certainly not exhausted) the vast array of roles and labels we might find ourselves acting and wearing, and we’re working to handle our newbie frenzy so we don’t come off as rambunctious puppies with no sense about us….
Frenzy and FOMO – two terms we use a lot in “The Scene”, especially around newbies. What do they mean? Why do we feel them? What do we do about it? That’s what this post is all about. Frenzy can be pretty self-explanatory even if we all feel it different or for different reasons –
First of all, welcome home! A little bit of a foreword : I’ve identified as kinky since basically forever now. I’m certainly not the one-true-voice-of-kink but I do hope to offer a little useful insight based on my many many years here. I signed up on Fetlife probably the day I was legally allowed to